poet Surender Sharma Column baat kahunga khari khari | Keep taking blessings of Babylon, may you get a happy world: The bride may not remember her maternal home, even if the groom’s family may remember his grandmother – Uttar Pradesh News

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The groomsmen and groomsmen solemnized my marriage with great joy. From the time I reached the wedding procession to my going to the bride’s house on a mule and the stories of my friends getting intoxicated and dancing to enhance the beauty of the wedding procession, the stories were unforgettable.

Anyway, the marriage was over and when the time of farewell came, the scene was quite tearful. Its effect was that I did not cry, but there was nothing left to cry either! As much time was spent in traveling, the same amount was spent in crying.

Till today I have not been able to figure out whether my wife was crying while leaving that day, or laughing inside!

The in-laws had registered their names in the list of donors by giving one rupee each and a glass to the wedding guests. Every glass had the name of the donor on it, so that the virtue of donation does not go to anyone else’s account!

At that time, a song used to be played in every marriage, ‘Take the blessings of Babul, go, you will find a happy world…’ and everyone would cry.

I remember, when my sister was bid farewell, she was not crying. She cried when this song was played. Then she could go to her in-laws house crying.

Shaken by this song, all the family members started crying. Later, the girl did not remember her maternal home, but her in-laws definitely remembered her grandmother.

Anyway, after bidding farewell, we moved from Balrampur towards Delhi. At that time, a child was sent along with the girl in farewell, so my younger brother-in-law also came along.

When I crossed the Balrampur border, I said to my wife, ‘Balrampur is gone.’ After some time, when the wife lifted the veil, it was revealed that the girl was the same as I had thought. She spoke the first sentence, ‘Prannath, I will serve you all my life.’

The poet has a distant vision. Using the same foresight, I understood that the life of this ‘Prannath’ would either be taken away or it would be orphaned by adding ‘A’ to its name.

Still, I was happy thinking that I was returning home with a bride. In those days, stories of the marriage procession’s empty-handed return were very popular. But now no one could tell me to return home idiot. If someone asks, he will say, ‘Bring back your daughter-in-law.’

By the way, we had not come home with our daughter-in-law, but had come to the Dharamshala where the marriage took place. On the return of the wedding procession, a night vigil was held on the first night. Therefore, there was no hope of talking to his wife that night.

Once I tried to see my wife, I don’t know which sister-in-law scolded me that I had never seen a girl before!’

The next day was the wedding of one of my friends. His marriage procession also had to go out of Delhi, so I went in that marriage procession. The face became visible on the third day. Next morning he had to go back to his parents’ home.

After some time she returned to her parents’ home. His caravan passed and I kept looking at the clouds!

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