The beauty of a girl is determined by her car. Girl’s beauty is determined by car: Not culture, now the car that comes with the bride in marriage is necessary! -Uttar Pradesh News
The elders in my family explained only one thing to my father, ‘Balkishan’, do not ask for anything from the girl’s family. Like the groom’s appearance, marriage can take place only by giving something.
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My grandfather had three brothers. I am the eldest grandson in those three families. So my remaining two grandfathers ordered my father, ‘Balkishan, see that this is the first grandson. If she is not married into a decent family, then the rest of our children will also not be able to have relationships in good families. Therefore, explain to your son that somehow the relationship has been finalized. No one will send any letter to that girl even by mistake. He was afraid that if I wrote a letter, the relationship might break. He had so much confidence in my abilities, that is why the relationship was established so far away from Balrampur. Because if there were connections nearby, my exploits could have reached them.
A grandfather, while explaining the tradition, said, ‘The husband and wife born in big houses get to see each other’s face only at the end, let alone at the wedding, even after marriage, and if Balkishan was shown the face first, then Our remaining sons would have remained bachelors.
By the way, my father was married in a rich family of Delhi. The wealth of my maternal grandmother is evident from the fact that at that time there was a Mercedes and also a Rolls-Royce in her house. Till today I am unable to understand what he saw in that Nangal Choudhary village, where it took four hours to reach even after getting down from the train by bullock cart or horse cart. Perhaps they must have understood that a divine man like me is going to be incarnated in this house.
Anyway, my marriage was finalized and my tika was sent from my in-laws. The great poet of that time Shri Gopal Prasad Vyas also attended my vaccination ceremony. Although it was customary at that time to ask for dowry, but the elders in my family explained only one thing to my father, ‘Balkishan, do not ask for anything. As per the profile of the boy, marriage can happen only after giving something. Therefore, whatever they give, take it with your head. Understand that the fear of marriage of children of our family has started.
A son from a big family like us was getting married at the age of 25. The villagers used to say only one thing that marriage took place in the name of family at this age, otherwise the boy was not worthy of getting married.
The vaccine came in the same Chimanlal Dharamshala of Khari Baoli where my father used to work for Rs 50 a month. My in-laws were even higher class. He had already said that we do not want to show off dowry. Therefore, fifty-one bundles of one rupee each were arranged in a plate and given with a velvet cloth covered over it. Seeing so many bundles in a plate covered with cloth, I was wondering in my mind which of the three girls I had seen on Nai Road that day, which one would I get married to? Now all those three girls with so many buttocks were beginning to look beautiful to me.
There has been no significant change in the situation since then. Even today, whether a girl brings values from her parents’ home or not, her beauty depends on the kind of car she brings.
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